ADDaddy

Since the previous posting, this ADD family has decided to start it’s own business. This ADD spouse got laid off 2 weeks before Christmas, and the idea of working for someone else again was not very enticing. One thing this ADD husband/dad has taught me, is to not worry about stuff. Even stuff that should be worried about. Worrying is unproductive, but so is avoidance. Somehow, everything has always worked out in the end for us. Currently, we have no income, we borrowed money from a parent to start a business, and we’re waiting on a nice fat tax refund to support our family, and invest in the business. It seems an absolutely impossible situation, but this ADDer’s calm outlook, has enabled me to stay calm, and think clearly. Sometimes I have to bring the ADDer back down to earth - and it is never resented. I love how this ADDad is aware of his problems, and can acknowledge when he needs support or help - so long as the help is done in a loving, and non-condescending manner. Respect. It keeps any marriage healthy, but it is essential to a partnership involving ADD.

I think this ADDer spouse is gushing a little today. Love makes you do that.

Trackback URI | Comments RSS