Dec 05 2008
Who Suffers From ADD?
True, my husband has ADD. But, who also suffers is whoever is disappointed, or confused, or hurt, or neglected, or frustrated. I am discovering why ADDaddy does or doesn’t do things. I don’t take it personally. I do get disappointed and frustrated, and it’s my obligation as ADDaddy’s partner, to use these feelings toward solutions and methods to shape our daily life into one that accommodates ADDaddy’s difficulties. I know ADDaddy cares deeply about his family. I knows he loves us, and I truly love him. My confidence in our relationship lets me put aside feelings that could otherwise interfere with the real issue of finding ways to turn “my family’s” ADD into a manageable condition.